Homeschooling, potty training, and my husband’s new diet

Jamie did a little better with homeschooling this week.  I told him that he  cannot watch TV while he eats breakfast.  Instead he must do all his schoolwork before he gets TV or computer privileges.  We were only allowing him 1 half hour show before, but it seemed to affect his school performance so I decided to make him wait.  I also started using the reward chart I got from Scholastic.  He puts on a sticker for each subject we work on, under the appropriate day of the week.  This encourages him to try to read a little bit too, at least until he memorizes where everything is located on the chart.  We are working on memorizing the unit bars in the Math U See manipulative set.  Each number one to nine has a different colored bar with the appropriate number of squares on it.  I started yesterday and he knows them already.  I expected it to take a week or two, but once we colored the workbook picture of the unit bars he seemed to know them.  Today we played some games suggested in the teachers guide.  “If you’re happy and you know it…” grab a five, Simon Says “put a three on your nose” and things like that.  Jamie really wanted to play musical chairs.  I couldn’t figure out how that related to learning the unit bar values but he suggested putting a bar on each chair.  Then he told me the value of the unit bar in the chair whenever the music stopped and he sat down.   I kept changing them around too.  It was sooo much more fun than doing the workbook.  Next week we will work on addition.  I think that is pretty good for just starting Kindergarten.

Reading is still a challenge.  I’m trying to make it a “just right” level of challenge, but he really balks.  He understands phonics very well, but it seems to be a visual or attention issue that is holding him back.  His OT says that she feels he has difficulty tracking objects with his eyes and covers one eye sometimes when he colors,  so we made an appointment with a behavioral optometrist to see if there is a problem.  I know he is young still, but I also know he is quite capable of reading many words if he would just keep his eyes on the book.  His phonemic awareness is very good, and he only gets confused about whether the vowels are short or long.  If I could start again I would never have taught the long vowels when I first taught him the sounds the letters made.  But once he gets some of the rules down he should figure it out.  (Like an “e” on the end makes the “a” say it’s name, and that sort of thing.)  I’m going to order him a spelling book from Modern Curriculum Press and we will alternate that with phonics/reading.  Spelling is basically phonics in reverse, so it should help.  The book is a little below the level he is working at, so it should improve his confidence too.  I understand that the book starts with matching words that begin with the same sound, and moves on to some of the phonics rules later in the book. 

Samuel is doing a little better with the potty.  He actually went independently to his little potty when I had him in just a t-shirt, and had a bowel movement.  Another day I thought he was ready and he went again on the small potty.  He doesn’t wet much anymore, he has that down cold.  Even most nights he is try, I stopped using diapers at night.  I’m hoping to get him into Head Start in the fall, I just got through the first part of the red tape and now we will wait and see if he qualifies for a spot.  Apparently his receiving Birth to 3 services almost guarantees him the spot.  It does seem easier to work with Jamie on school without Samuel distracting him.  I think it will be good for both of them.  And the lady from Head Start claims that they can finish potty training him, LOL.

On the health front, my husband started on the Cinch Inch Loss Plan this week. Basically you replace breakfast and lunch with shakes. Their shakes are very high in protein to help you feel full, and high in leucine to prevent loss of muscle mass. There is a snack bar included in the plan for a snack, to get you through between shakes. There is also a metabolism boosting vitamin supplement and energy tea mix. My husband told me the first day that he did not feel hungry on the plan and that he felt like he had more energy. He even played with the kids right after coming home from work, which is unusual for him. Stay tuned to find out how well it works for him.

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2 Comments

  1. snpnmnmi said,

    August 27, 2007 at 2:35 pm

    Hi there! Found your site through WP’s tag surfer. I have a 2 year old potty training (kind-of) and twin tweeners – middle school. When the tweens were learning to read, way back when, we used Teach America To Read And Spell with a lot of success. No long this or short thatand no flashy bright pictures. I’ve got a link to it in this post. http://snpnmnmi.wordpress.com/2007/08/10/back-to-homeschool-week-2/

    Have a great week!

  2. CV said,

    September 8, 2007 at 5:53 am

    Hi

    My eldest shows signs of SID. I haven’t had a chance to have it officially diagnosed but he does show some of the same lags in understanding that your son does in playing games too and in other sensory issues.

    With regards to reading I started with my son at 5yo, but kept on hitting a brick wall. He could not connect those visual shapes with the sounds he was hearing. We have tried again and again over the years and finally at 7.5yo he started to see and hear the differences between letters like p and b and d or m and n. I am using the Ordinary Parent’s Guide to Teaching Reading by Susan Bauer but I really think it didn’t matter what the program was, he was just finally ready.

    All to say, anyway, your son sounds like he is trying and I am glad to hear he is doing so well for his age. Just remember he is not in a race against anyone and that if he is improving on himself it doesn’t matter how he compares to other kids the same age. Boys can be late developers and hit walls so don’t panic yet. He will find his groove, and you are doing a very good job of making sure that anything that could be holding him back is investigated. I did all that too, but in my son’s case it was just time and maturity.

    Anyway, take what you like and leave the rest. This advice may have no value to you but thought I would share.

    Best wishes,
    CV


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